Turism ptr suflet

Ma entuziasmez si astazi cand imi amintesc de cea mai tare experienta de shopping din viata mea.Eu,shopping?nu ca nu mi-ar placea dar nu sunt shopping-addicted...cel putin,nu in tara!Am calatorit la viata mea,mi-ampetrecut copilaria la Bran,am lucrat putin undercover ca traducatoare,ghid,imi placea,desi eram in vacanta dar adoram engleza desi abia o invatasem ,fiind in scoala generala.Aveam si rude ce aveau o pensiune...ce vreau sa zic...ca eram destupata la minte,fasneata,de la gradinita pana la terminarea facultatii....dar nu vazusem nici o tara straina!!!Halal de mine!Asa ca m-am hotarat,am luat pauza de job,m-am rugat de varmiu si m-am poposit in masina lui.Lucreaza in Italia,venise de Craciun si iata-ma-s in 2011.iarna 6-7 ian.Plecam cu masina,am mers vreo 2 zile,in Lodi.Mi-a placut!Am cam intepenit in masina,opriri prin benzinarii,calatorit noaptea,dar eu incantata....Ajunsesem ,era o lume noua.Case frumoase,obloane ,ghivece mari cu flori,italieni in varsta dis de dimineata ,eleganti,bindu-si cafeaua,neaparat cu ziarul in mana.ceea ce la noi...ele,cucoanele,la fel de elegante de parca era prezentare de haine de blana si bijuterii...inghiteam insec!cu engleza...nimic....nu reactionau,foarte nationalisti,doar limba lor,chiar si in magazinele exclusiviste!Am vizitat dus-intors intr-o zi si Milano!feerieeee.Domul...ce poate fi mai frumos,devii automat credincios.Un loc unde se imbina tot....inclusiv fumatul pe strada,porumbeii  care vin sa-i hranesti in fata Domului,zeci de terase cu aer opulent,o lume cosmopolita,toata lumea avea pungi si pungulite cu shopping....si eu sa nu fac nota discordanta....mi-a placut,m-am simtit ca o diva pe covorul rosu!

Oda obarsiei

Este extrem de important sa pastram traditia noastra ptr ca ne defineste si daca am uita-o ne-am uita pe noi insine ca indivizi,ne-am uita radacinile neamului din care ne tragem toti.Ne place sau nu suntem romani cu fiecare fibra a vietii noastre indiferent daca locuim in tara ,muncim in strainatate sau suntem sclavii intelectuali ai corporatiilor.Pastram in noi o urma din copilaria de la tara,chiar daca ne-am dus doar in vacanta de vara si macar cu atat suntem datori ,daca nu mandri ca ne-am nascut pe plaiurile romanesti.Se pare ca avem nevoie sa ne spuna altii cat de faina e traditia noastra in toate momentele ei,sa restauram case vechi ardelenesti si nu numai ptr a pastra acea farama de bucurie romaneasca,mai ales in haosul monden,cosmopolit in care traim azi,dar e bine si acest inceput in campania sufleteasca de a nu da uitarii ia romaneasca

Married,but the same!

I do not know how are the others,but i am somehow newly married,one year exactly,after 3 years of relationship and i am on the exact situation of Carrie Bradshaw social and professional status.And moreover of the feelings.I watched the series and the movies, i loved her and the atmosphere of the happenings,i somehow watched myself-my own apartment, english translator and freelancer in writing articles,going out on saturday night,.travelling when and with whom i wanted,staying in bed on different hours...so free spirit !And i remained the same,because it can be the same and this  is the idea (not only of the article,but also of life).Things can mingle,you can add feelings without cutting the former ones!Specific feminine freedom can make home with marriage situation and by the way  marriage is related to love!And i am not referring to a modern marriage ,meaning together ,but separate!Each of us must or should have his/her own unsuffocated space,to do small,but significant things done before.Unfortunatelly,we  and the society have the tendency to say and  act before and after marriage.I am and i was for marriage to complete myself ,i had everything but something was missing,i wanted a husband for myself,not to put the certificate on the wall,but i recognise i wanted to change my  maiden name and have a wedding ring,i wanted to be the happiest and i did it!We married exactly as in the movie(we were both as Big character,not a complicated wedding)only two of us and it was the marvellous moments when i filled the apllication form and i said yes!So it can be true, life can be as in a movie,i can still be the free spirit with another one!But we both look different the idea of marriage,we have our own couple rules,we can do different things but having the same timing!Timing is referring to attitude,how we manage to avoid complicate situations without ruining everything and maintaining our inner sparkle!I kept my own apartment ,i visit it every week,i left some memories there, i wrote and i study there when i want to be alone with myself,there are moments like this ,but we shouldnt be afraid to say,to feel ,to act,it doesnt imply the absence of the other,but just a small escape,as travelling in another space and time!We need it not because we are already bored,but because we are humans,we born and die physical alone,we are connected by feelings ,not by ropes!Or ,maybe i am just like to have such a situation,to be comfortable,to be a free spirit in a lovely cage(metaphorical one)!

Scrisoare catre mine insami

In cartea vietii mele sunt la acel capitol adresat varstei 30-35 cand excesele adolescentei s-au cam dus si am atins de putina vreme ceva stabilitate in viata mea,asa ca in reclama aia de la bere-stii e cam timpul sa te asezi la casa ta,o cariera si alte bla bla-uri de gen....am un stil propriu,clasic si modern,office si street style(da,chiar cred cu tarie ca se pot imbina,pe principiul moda trece,stilul ramane)personalitate puternica si mai abitir conturata,niscaiva tabieturi...dar astea s-au asezat in timp,dupa cateva bobarnace de la pragul de sus,lupta metaforica dar mereu cu garda sus(ma repet cu adverbul de loc sus,dar aici are sens negativ)cu oponentii inevitabil aparuti pe parcursul avantului puiului din cuib!Din fericire nu am fost eu pui in cuib,mi-a placut sa cunosc lume,sa invat cate ceva din afara cuibului si nu prea m-am omorat cu sfaturile...dar au existat si au fost cam din alta epoca!Deci ,sa-mi rememorez din primul an de liceu cateva asa zise ajutatoare indrumari pe calea cea buna,corecta ,dar mai ales fata de altii,ca,de,nu e bine sa fii narcisist/egoist ca totul are timpul sau si lumea intreaga abia asteapta sa te imbratiseze!Poate am ratat eu momentul imbratisarii!Invata,remarca-te, mergi la olimpiade, termina un liceu bun de sa se bucure tot familionul,ia la facultate eventual la una cu potenta financiara pe viitor,nu prostii d-astea alde teorie,de scris articole ca-ti ghioraie matele asa!Fii diplomata ,nu mai spune tot ce gandesti ca o sa ai de pierdut in viata....si tot asa...Mi-ar fi placut boboc fiind sa primesc exact aceleasi sfaturi dar pe invers,sa mi sa spuna ca pot sa fiu asa cum vreau,ca societatea e doar un exterior nenorocit,ca pot cuceri lumea cu visele mele ce nu li se par tampite,ca bunul meu simt e doar pana la o limita si de altfel pot scoate sabia la un eventual afrond...cam astea mi-ar fi placut sa le aud atunci,dar ma bucur enorm ca am avut totusi intuitia de a fi surda la primele si de a le urma pe ale mele....

Campanie PR baba Dochia-THE PRACTICE.RO

Intr-o lume moderna si cam haotica ,Baba Dochia (la propriu sau la figurat)si-ar face cam greu intrarea sau ar avea cel putin obstacolul de a mentine atentia privitorului,asa ca ,ce sa mai vb de promovare!Dar hai sa facem o incercare,tot in aceasta lume in care se citeste mai putin tiparit de sa simti mirosul cartii proaspat aburinde din tipografie si mai mult printat,resume,gata supervizat online.Si totusi,ma incapatanez sa rasfoiesc din diverse pozitii si chiar sa adorm pe un basm al copilariei,frumos reeditat si de pe taraba cumparat!Mi-ar placea un basm cu insertii si poze moderne,o carte in care sa-mi regasesc atat copilaria cat si modernitatea femeii de 35,sa citesc povestea Dochiei cea de odinioara dar sa o imprietenesc cu peripetiile celei moderne a la Carrie Bradshaw sau sa o aduc pe baba in capitala!Imi imaginez o carte ce sa aiba ca target-group ,exquisite and office women,sa inteleaga prin cate se trecea si atunci si cat e de actual si in prezent(sub o forma sau alta).Mi-ar placea o campanie vizibila,non-agresiva ,2-3 postere mari si diferite in metrou(mitica Dochia in vesmantele-i specific autohtone si cea moderna coborata parca de pe coperta Vogue) , 2-3 reclame diferite ,catchy logo-uri de sa crezi ca fac reclama la medicamente de osteoporoza dar totusi cu aluzie de sex-appeal ,subtil si modern.Imi imaginez o editura clasica dar si open-minded,iar cartea sa devina una din colectiiile de pe noptiera ,sa-mi fie draga ca un ghid al femeii vazuta atat prin ochi ancestrali cat si moderni!

Life-long questions/ Letter to myself/Interviewing myself

In the book of my life,i am at that chapter addressed to 30-35age when i just settled myself  and i have some stability referring to job,marriage,i have my own style in dressing(and i really believe that : fashion is something that goes away,but style remains; you can successfully combine clasic,offfice with street style for having your own input ,high heels to conquer the world and personal,characteristical perfume for having a future)and moreover a strong personality ...but all these came along the time,after some ups and downs ,improper advice from so-called friends and family,inner struggle and nothing was easily,but it worthed every metaphorical battle in order to become the person i am today!So,the point of all this is that all our life we have questions from ourselves and from the others,but are they so important?They help  to know us better, to choose the right path in life or everything is just fate and faith?Do we make our own arbitrary choice or it is already written somewhere,but no matter what, i strongly believe that we must have faith in our dreams,beliefs  even if they seemed foolish to the surrounding.Since we are a child up to maturity we are ruled by questions-what do you want to become when you will be a grown up,what college want to graduate, where do you want to work and on what salary ,when do you get married,when a child,when the second one?Maybe another question will pop-up:when do you want to die?And i am saying this to reveal the stupidity of life-long questions!Why do you need to answer or not,why we care about it,why there are 2 worlds-our inner one and society?I thanked myself that at some point in my life i was deaf to suggestions and i chose my way of living,comfortable to myself in some agreement to exterior ,not too much because is damaging and not entirely healthy to our soul,i  rejected with common sense do this/do that and i created my own list .And i am happy.The idea is that stop worring and live as you wish!

Comentariu spot auto-Toarce micuta,e sprintena!

Spotul este amuzant ,cam ironic,te astepti la ceva anost,sa fim sinceri-un batranel intr-o casa batraneasca-deci cam din start reclama la medicament,sau pardonCatena!Dar ce sa vezi ,ca te inseli,sa nu te iei niciodata dupa aparente,caci deodata apare o super masina,proprietatea sa personala,in total contrast cu locuinta.Te astepti,Doamne iarta-ma  sa stranga bani ptr cele vesnice ,pe cand el a investit in asa masina....dar intr-adevar nu stim de ce o vinde!imi place deasemenea  personalizarea,se vede ca renunta la ceva drag ce i s-a lipit de suflet ca o ...pisicuta,chiar la propriu vorbind.Si ptr ca inca o mai iubeste apeleaza cu mare incredere la Mercador.ro!